Thursday, August 11, 2011

Shalom Zachor-שלום זכור

This link is to the Davar Torah that we said on our first son's Shalom Zachor in Talpiot, Jerusalem in 1996.

Shalom Zachor

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Yisro-Perspective; An Antidote to Jealousy

Imagine having a six point simultaneous perspective on any object. Seeing something from the front, back, right, left, top and bottom and computing the visions instantaneously gives one a superhero-esk understanding.

Certainly, a general grasp of any situation carries with it knowledge of its specifics even without the particular awareness of their existence (The Way of God by Ramchal, Introduction) even more so when the details are laid out in front of us with a panoramic view.

To our great chagrin the Homo sapiens have only a three-dimensional view at any specific moment. Therefore, we fail to see some obvious realities that may exist concurrently with our experience.

A case in point is the argument that the Orchas Tzadikkim (Sha’ar Hakinnah #14) posits in order to inspire us not to be jealous of our fellow persons. After alarming the reader with the fact that jealousy can lead to the transgression of all the Ten Commandments he writes as follows.

“Jealousy is due to the malevolence of the soul. If he is jealous of the beauty, strength, or affluence, he doesn’t want what the Creator has decreed upon him. This is similar to a slave who complains about the actions of his master etc.”

In part the cause of jealousy is the failure to see ourselves when we look at others. We see beauty and strength of others and ignore our uniqueness. But in reality, God has given us ours and theirs theirs (Niddah 16b) and never the twain shall meet. The possibility that theirs could be ours is a product of our imagination unrelated to the reality.

Another example is the observation of the Chidah (Avodus Hakodesh, Tziporen Shamir 13:210). Astutely, he ponders the obvious fact that no person exists even for a moment without the support of God. That fact leads us to conclude that even at the precise moment that a person commits the vilest and most despicable acts God gives them the strength to do so. The hands that stab, the feet that kick, and the eyes that see are not abandoned by the God from whom they are directed to rebel!

Certainly, the miscreant is unaware of this reality at the time of their infraction as the Talmud (Sotah 3a) tells us that one doesn't sin unless they are filled with the spirit of foolishness.

Naturally, we can’t see with our physical eyes from all perspectives. However, if we put some thought into our situations before we proceed our imagination will provide the proper all-angle perspective to make the right decisions.

This is the message of our Mishnah (Ethics of Our Fathers 3:7) R’ Elazar Ish Barbusa said, Give from His because you and yours is from Him. Realize that all is from God and that whatever we give away we give on His behalf. Whatever, was decreed for us will remain ours. Whatever was meant for others they will receive.